Every day there are what we think bad things happening to us, either at a personal level or the world. However, it really depends on our we choose to see the event. We do have a choice to not react immediately but to consider and reflect on the event. It is imperative that you find the possible good as to why you have experienced that event. Find the silver lining, find the gift, find the good in it for you.
We are responsible for every event that happens in our life and we are the ones that have the choice to acknowledge the truth and grow from the experience.